“Jesus replied, ‘Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.’” –John 3:3, NIV
A few weeks ago, I stumbled across an article listing phrases the author thought Christians should stop using and why this was his opinion for each. One of those phrases was born again. The author, a Christian himself, said Christians shouldn’t use that phrase because it confuses people.
You see, Jesus actually coined that phrase. Jesus! Our own, eternal Master, Savior, King of Kings, Lord of Lords, Son of God, Jesus said that people need to be born again.
He introduced the concept to Nicodemus, a religious leader who visited one night to ask Jesus questions about His teachings and miracles. True. The concept did confuse Nicodemus, who asked, “How can someone be born when they are old? Surely they cannot enter a second time into their mother’s womb to be born!” (John 3:4).
But that’s the point. Nicodemus’ confusion made him curious, and his curiosity gave Jesus the opportunity to explain. In fact, that conversation led to Jesus presenting the single, most important Truth that all people, everywhere, throughout all time need to know: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
It seems to me that this one, little phrase has been used effectively ever since then to open doors, eyes, minds, and hearts to the good news that Jesus’ sacrifice makes it possible for people to be saved from sin and to enjoy eternal life in the presence of God.
After Jesus’ death and resurrection, His followers continued to use the term. Peter used it: “For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God” (1 Peter 1:23). James, Jesus’ own brother, also used the concept: “He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created” (James 1:18). Instead of rejecting the phrase, these followers of Jesus listened to Him, absorbed the Truth, claimed it for themselves, and shared it with others.
We can do this, too!
If the concept perplexes you, and you fear you’ll only confuse people if you try to explain it, I encourage you to read, ponder, pray, and study it for yourself until you make it yours like Peter and James did. Until then, share God’s Truth with others in your own way as the Spirit leads. This Spirit has an infinite number of ways to lead people into God’s Kingdom. As opportunities arise, say what you feel led to say.
If, however, the Spirit prompts you to talk about being born again, please don’t hesitate, fearing this is wrong. If you’re using the words of Jesus, as the Holy Spirit leads, God will help you speak, and He’ll help those who listen to understand. The God Who loves the world is faithfully helping His born again children to deliver His Truth to whoever is ready to hear it, believe, confess, and be saved.
Father, thank You for the privilege of sharing this good news. Please give us opportunities to tell others about all that Jesus has done for them. Fill us with Your Spirit and give us just the right words to say. We love You, Lord, and we know You love Your creation. Please help us to share Your Word and to encourage each other as we do. Amen.